- A South African woman opened up about her dating struggles on TikTok, revealing the harsh realities of modern romance.
- She shared how she was ghosted an astonishing 16 times by potential matches, sparking a wave of empathy and advice online.
- Mzansi users chimed in with their own experiences, creating a lively discussion about the challenges of online dating.
- We caught up with relationship expert Kelley Nele to uncover ways to reduce ghosting and improve communication in the digital dating world.
A young woman from Johannesburg decided to spill the tea on her dating journey, sharing her ups and downs with the world through TikTok. Her story struck a chord with many, as it delves deep into the complexities of modern dating and the emotional toll it can take.
Her Story: Ghosted 16 Times on Tinder
Our brave TikToker, @tsonga_doll0, decided to take a chance on love by exploring online dating. After trying her luck with traditional meet-and-greets with no success, she turned to Tinder in hopes of finding something special. But instead of love, she found herself ghosted—16 times! In her viral TikTok video, she shared her frustrations with her followers, painting a vivid picture of the highs and lows of online dating.
In the video caption, @tsonga_doll0 confessed, “True story, online dating is so hard. Maybe it's time to give up.” Her heartfelt message resonated with many who have faced similar challenges, leading to a surge of views, likes, and comments from people eager to support her journey.
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Expert Advice: How to Avoid Ghosting on Dating Apps
To shed light on this growing issue, we spoke with relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele, who offered practical advice for navigating the choppy waters of digital romance. Kelley emphasized the importance of clear communication, especially when it comes to serious discussions or disagreements.
“Misunderstandings can easily happen through text, so I recommend taking conversations to the phone or Facetime whenever possible. If you can, meeting in person is always the best option. Since texting is unavoidable in the dating world, it’s crucial to avoid assumptions, ask for clarity, and be as transparent as possible when expressing your thoughts and feelings.”
Kelley’s advice aims to empower users to take control of their dating experiences, fostering healthier connections and reducing the chances of ghosting.
Mzansi Reacts: The Conversation Sparks
The TikTok post ignited a firestorm of reactions from Mzansi netizens, with many sharing their own dating horror stories. The comments section became a space for empathy, advice, and solidarity as users commiserated over the trials and tribulations of modern romance.
Briemx chimed in, saying, “The embarrassment when you wake up in the morning, and they’ve unmatched you after having a great conversation.”
Noma added, “I think those guys just want hookups, so if they see you’re not into that, they vanish into thin air.”
Denise_Ngosa shared her pain, confessing, “Same thing happened to me. I thought this one particular guy was ‘the one.’ It really messed up my self-esteem. I don’t even want to date anymore.”
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Missa_Monakali offered some levity, commenting, “Even the guys we meet on the street ghost us. Don’t sweat it.”
Shenay_nay echoed the sentiment, writing, “No, because same!! I finally deleted all the dating apps I had because it was such a waste of time.”
Gugs Dlamini wrapped up the conversation with a comforting reminder: “It’s not you, it’s them. They’re probably talking to a thousand other women.”
Love in the Digital Age: Another Success Story
Despite the challenges, not all online dating stories end in heartbreak. Recently, Briefly News covered the heartwarming tale of a woman who found love through Tinder. Her TikTok video, shared by @ratii_, showcased how her online match consistently went above and beyond to spoil her with sweet gestures and heartfelt moments.
This story serves as a reminder that while online dating can be tough, it’s not impossible to find meaningful connections. With a little patience, perseverance, and the right mindset, love can still blossom in the digital age.
